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✓ Lose weight
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✓ Get a rich boyfriend
✓ Figure out what I want to do with my life


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Email to The New Paper
Tuesday, July 19, 2016,
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Dear Catherine,

I am an avid reader of the New Paper and I am shocked and disgusted when I read your article on Taylor Swift.
It would have been fine if your article was not biased and actually provided facts and reasons why she should stop playing the victim instead of the usual lousy excuses on Twitter that ANY fan of Taylor could easily refute.

How misinformed your article must be for people who do not know Taylor Swift !

I quote Taylor's representative releasing this statement after Famous song was released.

"Kanye did not call for approval, but to ask Taylor to release his single ‘Famous’ on her Twitter account. She declined and cautioned him about releasing a song with such a strong misogynistic message. Taylor was never made aware of the actual lyric, ‘I made that bitch famous.’ "

You conveniently did not mention the second part of her rep's official statement misguiding readers to think that Taylor is a lying bitch when in actual fact Taylor was never o.k. with being called a Bitch.

How is Taylor being "two-faced"??? When the call was made, Taylor was on friendly terms with Kanye. Put yourself in Taylor's shoes, she writes about her life and emotions in her songs how can she deny or tell Kanye to remove that line "I think me and Taylor might still have sex"??

In her mind, Kanye was actually being really nice to call and inform her about this lyric and even after the incident with Kanye in 2009, Taylor strongly expressed in an interview that she was excited when Kanye got on stage, and the reason why? " Thats Kanye West" she replied.
Implying that she was a fan at that time and when Kanye apologized, she accepted it and even became friends with her idol.

If your idol ever calls you telling you, you would be in a line in his song... even if you were uncomfortable with - having sex with said idol, wouldn't YOU have replied the same way? It would be her fault if she started going all dramatic and shit too, so its a "damned if you do and damned if you don't" situation and I can't believe New Paper would even APPROVE of your article just based on this alone.

"Me and Taylor might still have sex" is DEFINITELY less derogatory than being called a BITCH!
In the first sentence, said person implies that he and Taylor may still have consented sex.
While the term Bitch in itself is derogatory .

How can you compare those two being on equal standing is beyond me.

In fact, in the phone conversation, it clearly proves that Taylor was right and that Kanye never played the song for her at all. How can you dispute her statement just because you were biased in your judgement? Have you perhaps, heard or seen another recording of the conversation and actually heard the song being played to Taylor before its release?

I quote another sentence in your article,
"Just last week, you tried to bully your ex boyfriend too"

Seriously? Where is the link, source of anything that showed Taylor bullying Calvin? Her reps merely confirmed rumors that Taylor wrote lyrics for the song and suddenly she is bullying Calvin ??? What the hell?

Where did her reps "tried to make it look like Taylor was the brains behind his latest hit single"? WHERE did you see it? They simply confirmed she had a part in it. How can you not once, but twice misinform and misguide readers this way?
How can anyone deny Taylor her credit in her role in the song? How can you conveniently exclude that Calvin banned his ex Rita Ora from performing a track they produced together? How is it right that we bash someone who is not stealing, not cheating but actually claiming her ACTUAL work that she did and say she is trying to be anything less than that is beyond me.


Taylor Swift has been busy touring the world with Tom Hiddleston and has not made any official statement until Kim posted an illegal recording of the phone conversation.
How can you insinuate that she started anything and made enemies "left, right, and centre"?

Your own biased opinions should not have been bought onto the article and you should been reported based on facts.

If in fact, you can convince and proof why Taylor is playing victim, I would not have been outraged by the blatant lies you put on The New Paper.

I sincerely hope you would have the decency to correct your article with an apology for misinforming readers .
I do not harbour any ill-feeling towards you and look forward to you convincing me, that Taylor is not a victim.

Also, we have to stop shaming women who are successful.
Perhaps you should read this article from the guardian and hopefully, understand which side I am rooting for.
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2016/jul/18/taylor-swift-kanye-west-kim-kardashian-west-famous-reaction
Not Taylor Swift. Not Calvin Harris. But the need to not shame women for their success or put them in their place.

Thank you.

Best Regards,
Daphnne Pang
http://kill-theheadlights.blogspot.com   
Copy and Paste for Taylor Swift Defence Squad
Monday, July 18, 2016,
Taylor always writes and shames her EX! So why can't people write a song and shame her too!?
Taylor writes songs about her EMOTIONS. Just like any other major song writers out there. If you are unhappy with her writing songs about her own emotions then have a petition to stop ALL songwriters to write about their own experiences. Don't be just biased against her alone because it makes your argument INVALID. Also, no one is stopping anyone else from writing songs about Taylor.

(Except this feud with Kanye which brings me to my next point )

So why can't Kanye write about her? 
Kanye CAN write about Taylor. Even on Kim's snapchat Taylor was O.K. with Kanye writing " I think me and Taylor might still have sex, I made her famous" So, your argument about Taylor being upset is invalid coz shes not upset at Kanye writing about her. She's upset that Kanye said she agreed to him calling her a BITCH and she NEVER agreed to it. Kim's snapchat video proved that Taylor was right.

She wrote bad blood about Katy. 
Like I said, Taylor is writing about her EMOTIONs. In bad blood she wrote about getting back-stabbed and feeling betrayed. How does that paint Katy in a negative light, I have no idea.

I like Katy a lot and Bad blood doesn't change my opinion of Katy.
Taylor feel like Katy back-stabbed her, but does that mean Katy is a backstabbing scheming bitch? NO.

In fact, in Katy's point of view, the dancers are her friends and they support their friend more than a random celebrity, so why should Taylor be upset? What a drama queen.
But to each their own, I understand where both are coming from and if Katy wants to write a song about Taylor I would also be fine with it. Because its HER EMOTIONS and I have no right to tell someone how to feel.

Taylor also childishly posted a video about Joe Jones XX years ago when he broke up with her!!She was 18 at that time!!! Not justifying what she did was right but do you want someone to hold you responsible for a mistake you did 8 years ago? THINK.
(On a sidenote, I never really liked when she did that video about Joe but I really don't care because it doesn't affect my opinion on Joe nor does it affect my life in anyway. In fact the only person who should be upset is Joe and his family and friends which, the last I know, he is already dating one of Taylor's BFF and on friendly terms with her. So who are we to be upset now?

Taylor slut shamed Camilla Belle and still claimed to be a feministPeople have FEELINGS they act in a spur of a moment and take glee in hurting others. But did you really mean it when you say you hate your parents when you were angry? Should your parents take it to heart FOREVER? No!
Also, Slut - Shaming is wrong and should have never been done in the first place. I will not defend Taylor in this because not only am I a SWIFTIE, I am a reasonable human being.. I will not blindly support Taylor OR blindly hate on Camilla.
However, there are MANY things I am sure your friends and family do that you do not agree with but it doesn't mean you do not love and support them as well in other aspects.
(p/s I heard from a fellow swiftie that Taytay had apologised or felt remorse from writing Better Than Revenge, if so, can i have the source link for it? ) 

She can't keep a man/She has waaayyy too many boyfriends something must be wrong with her! 
There are MANY friends I know who had dated more men than Taylor. STOP SLUT SHAMING. No one cares when a certain male celebrity(who I will not name) changes girlfriend every month so why should we be upset at who Taylor dates? Double Standard much?


Other than shitty songs about her EX she can't write anything else. she DOES NOT just write shitty songs that brings people down, in fact, a lot of my favorite songs from Taylor are about LOVE, LIFE and FRIENDS. Love as in love for her band(long live), love for her parents(The best day), Supporting your loved ones(Sweeter than fiction)... etc I can go on FOREVER. But you haters choose to dwell on negative songs like "Dear John" (I only heard it a once or twice and I don't like it anyway) when you plainly ignore the fact that She also wrote "Ours" about John Mayer which is a favorite in my family.

Also, she never denied that she likes writing songs about love because it fascinated her. I mean, who isn't fascinated with love and most chart topping songs are about love.
But is all her songs ALWAYS trying to bring people down? No. I do not think so. She just write what shes feeling and its free for us to interpret it however we want to.

As she matures, she wrote less and less songs painting others in a negative light.  In fact, in her 1989 album, apart from Bad Blood which one can argue paints Katy "in a bad light",*rolls eyes*
None of the other songs can be used as ammo against anyone but everyone just want to dwell on Bad Blood coz lets admit it, media loves drama and you are stupid enough to believe whatever they say.

The fact that you dwell on the negative aspects of her song writing shows how you are as a person. So are you a negative, hate spreading slut shaming person, or are you a positive, loving, accepting and forgiving person?

She started a feud with Calvin Harris!
Pardon me, but where EXACTLY did you see her start anything with Calvin? Ever since their breakup Calvin is the one who was the most anal and vocal about it.

She tried to claim credit for Calvin's hit song!Ok, so you wrote a song in secret..... It became a hit... And suddenly its wrong to say "I wrote this!"
So the next time when someone wants to give you credit for anything tell them you can't...because its famous right now.

NO! She said she doesnt want the credit then now she wants to claim credit what a hypocrite!
She never said she doesn't want the credit. If she never wanted the credit she would not have created a pseudonym for it. She would just have Calvin completely write off her contributions to the song.
She just did not want her name to be the center of attention from what her then boyfriend could be getting attention for.

Heck if I had a famous boyfriend, I wouldnt want him to be involve in my work because people might just want to see my videos coz of my boyfriend and not because of the work I did in it.

If she was so supportive of Calvin, why claim credit NOW? 
She had a part in the song. So why does it matter when she decide to claim credit for it? Does it matter when she claim it now or 50 years later? Seriously? 
Also they broke up already so why not? 
In fact, claiming credit for it actually boosted the video views on YT. Which actually helped Calvin A LOT. Hmm, sounds fishy, maybe thats why he wanted to rant about Taylor on Twitter.

I mean, he could be labeled as a bitter ex boyfriend but at least he gets an additional 3~ 4M views on YT.  Which makes me question his motives for dating Taylor.... Hmm..... 

She moved on from Calvin so quickly!!
The best excuse to refute this is that Calvin moved on from his ex to Taylor within 10days of being single.  So why can't Taylor? 

But I am not going to use this excuse because its NOT ok to judge someone base on the duration between relationships, in fact, Taylor was single all throughout 2013 and 2014. 

Im actually going to say this....in all caps.

THAT GUY IS TOM HIDDLESTON. I WOULD WANA DATE HIM TOO IF HE WOULD HAVE ME. COMEON DONT LIE YOU KNOW YOU WANT HIM TOO WTFFFF.

Who can actually reject someone like Tom Hiddleston?! I bet even Taylor was starstruck .

Also, you guys keep saying its for a publicity stunt. So if its for publicity and/or a new movie/music video, why are you upset she "moved on" so quickly. Because if its for a movie etc as you claimed, then Taylor actually DID NOT move on.

And you can also justify that, she claimed credit for her work to spite Calvin coz she hasnt moved on, and Calvin and her actually still have feelings for each other thats why they are so-- vicious and bitter about this break up..

HOLY SHITTTTTT!!!!
 if Calvin and Taylor actually got back together, wouldnt that like be a major SHIT DUMPING on all you #TeamCalvin (which mostly comprises of Taylor's Haters) . MAYBE Calvin is just trying to DUMP SHIT on you haters for his wonderful (ex)GF!!! #CONSPIRACIES.


Nah, they are never ever getting back together. That I'm sure.

REMEMBER how Taylor is as a person is HER BUSINESS and her friends and families' problem. How YOU are as a person defines YOU not anyone else.

Peace, Daphnne .
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